You are looking for someone that is genuine and not your emotional twin. You are not falling in love
Just because you find someone ATTRACTIVE doesn't mean you should be in a RELATIONSHIP
with them! It is NOT a bad reflection on you that a man (that ALL you know about him) is he's GOOD LOOKING and has a JOB takes you on a date and doesn't feel sparks. It's NORMAL!!! Most men that don't want relationships, mirror that sentiment in their actions.