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Welcome to As the Wind Blows.

This is a space created for women 50+ who are navigating life’s changes with courage, curiosity, and a sense of humor. If you’re adjusting to a new season—empty nesting, grandparenthood, evolving relationships, or simply learning to put yourself back on the priority list—you’re in the right place.

Here, I share encouragement for the journey, reflections on everyday life, and trusted finds that truly support comfort, confidence, and well-being. From lifestyle shifts and self-care to marriage, family, and the joy of becoming a grandparent, this blog is about embracing this season with intention and grace.

I’m also passionate about aging confidently—whether that’s caring for gray hair with pride, redefining personal style, or finding products and routines that actually work for us now, not who we were years ago. I believe this chapter of life isn’t about slowing down—it’s about living more fully, with wisdom and heart.

As the Wind Blows is not about perfection. It’s about honesty, encouragement, laughter, and sharing what we’ve learned along the way. My hope is that you’ll find comfort here, feel seen, and walk away inspired to embrace your own journey with confidence.

Thank you for being here. Let’s navigate this season of life together—one thoughtful step at a time.

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Embracing a New Chapter: Adventures of a New Grandmother at 50!

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  As the wind blows, so too does the passage of time, marking the transitions in our lives. One such transition that many individuals face is the emergence of gray hair. It's a journey that goes beyond just the physical changes; it's a journey of self-acceptance, confidence, and embracing the natural beauty that comes with age. For me, this journey began when I turned 50 in December 2023. It was a milestone birthday, and I decided it was time to bid farewell to the routine of hair dyeing and embrace the authenticity of my graying locks. Little did I know, this decision would spark a profound transformation, not just in my appearance, but in my outlook on aging. However, my decision to let my gray hair shine wasn't met with unanimous applause. I encountered a barrage of negative feedback, with many projecting their own insecurities onto me, expressing concerns about looking older. Yet, amidst the sea of doubt, one unwavering beacon of support stood by my side – my husband. H...

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